Tuesday, January 31, 2012
The BIG Announcement!
I've been thinking about the big announcement and how to do it. This was the announcement I posted on facebook, we officially reached 12 weeks! I found this message generator online and couldn't resist. Thought it was a really cute way to spill the beans.
Monday, January 30, 2012
Stress
I've been going through a bit of a stressful time at work since returning in January. The division is being closed down, and I wasn't sure if I was being retrenched or not. They couldn't tell me for sure what they were going to do with me - or rather "they don't know what to do with me". Plus the fact that I'm in the dog box for something every so often, just feels like I'm someone to blame for everything that goes wrong, or doesn't happen - whether I know about it or not.
Needless to say I went home and burst into tears. Not just the day I didn't know what was happening with my job, but other days too.
My hubby was amazing and really supportive during this time and he said if that is the case, so be it. He would rather have me at home with no job and our baby than sitting at work stressing out like this and who knows what happens.
Last week (a week later) I sent an email to my boss to say I'd appreciate if he could let me know what the intention is and that I'd much rather prefer to know so that if I am being let go I can start trying to make alternate plans. The feedback is I'm not being retrenched. Apparently I'll be given a job description too.
I've been thinking about doing my own thing part time for the last year or so, done quite a bit of research, and writing a plan. I think recent events have given me the push I needed to give it a shot. After all, what have I got to lose?
I'll see what happens at work, but after hearing the news I already had one foot, and my heart out the door. And I have a feeling that I shouldn't get too comfortable. Priorities change you see, last year my priorities were mostly work related, but this year, life as I know it will change. It's not just the two of us to look out for any more... still feels unreal saying that. But there you have it. Then there were three. My family is my number one priority, just as it should be.
Needless to say I went home and burst into tears. Not just the day I didn't know what was happening with my job, but other days too.
My hubby was amazing and really supportive during this time and he said if that is the case, so be it. He would rather have me at home with no job and our baby than sitting at work stressing out like this and who knows what happens.
Last week (a week later) I sent an email to my boss to say I'd appreciate if he could let me know what the intention is and that I'd much rather prefer to know so that if I am being let go I can start trying to make alternate plans. The feedback is I'm not being retrenched. Apparently I'll be given a job description too.
I've been thinking about doing my own thing part time for the last year or so, done quite a bit of research, and writing a plan. I think recent events have given me the push I needed to give it a shot. After all, what have I got to lose?
I'll see what happens at work, but after hearing the news I already had one foot, and my heart out the door. And I have a feeling that I shouldn't get too comfortable. Priorities change you see, last year my priorities were mostly work related, but this year, life as I know it will change. It's not just the two of us to look out for any more... still feels unreal saying that. But there you have it. Then there were three. My family is my number one priority, just as it should be.
This is me @ 12 Weeks
Okay, give or take a day. I hope I get better at taking these self portraits :)
Friday, January 27, 2012
12 Weeks - We Made It
I'm so happy to say we've made it to 12 weeks!
We were only supposed to go to our next appointment next week but the doc's rooms called yesterday and canceled, wanting to move to 2 weeks from there.... I asked really nicely to be put put on a cancellation list for today. She phoned me this morning to say we could come in at 2pm.
We arrived and sat waiting for over an hour, can you believe it? I was bursting to go to the loo by then.
Finally our turn came and we started with the consult. The doc asked what I think are the regular things, food, my state of mind and wellbeing, etcetera. We told him about the night I sent hubby to the shops for tuna, and he told us about the time his wife was pregnant with his second daughter and she craved mopani worms! The poor man tried every market here in Jhb but they were out of season, resulting in a road trip to Botswana. He returned with a 20 kg bag just for her! We all had a good giggle at this, seems my hubby has it easy (for now).
Okay, here's what happened during the actual scan...
First things I looked for were arms and legs, but I was amazed at the difference when thinking back to our last scan. BabyG was sleeping, and seemed to be sucking it's thumb. The doctor said "oh the baby is sleeping, so no show for us today". I wasn't too sure I understood what he meant at the time, although I suppose I also didn't really know to expect a 'moving' baby?? Who knew? We listened to the heartbeat and again it was 154 bpm. We did some more chatting. Doc asked if I had any idea what we are having, so I told him what I think but also that I actually have absolutely no idea. He laughed and said thankfully it can only be one of 2, and not a whole list! Good grief. My nerves would be shot.
The doc tried again, and then I saw the movement. Little arms and legs fluttering around. I just sat there dumfounded, with a big fat smile on my face. Hubby was worried about tears again, but this time there were none. I think this has got to go down in my book as possibly the most amazing experience of my life yet. It fluttered around a bit more and went back to snooze mode.
Our little thing is 5.90 cm long. Blood pressure I think was normal, I always forget to write that down. Weight didn't seem to be a problem, but I've lost 1,2 kgs since our last visit.
Overall the Doc is happy with everything. He told me to eat something sweet next time, and maybe the baby will play around a lot more. Only problem is I'm not really enjoying really sweet things at the moment. The grapes I had earlier obviously didn't do the trick.
I'm over the moon. Just happy. I think this is what happiness is. Minus the weird dreams.
We were only supposed to go to our next appointment next week but the doc's rooms called yesterday and canceled, wanting to move to 2 weeks from there.... I asked really nicely to be put put on a cancellation list for today. She phoned me this morning to say we could come in at 2pm.
We arrived and sat waiting for over an hour, can you believe it? I was bursting to go to the loo by then.
Finally our turn came and we started with the consult. The doc asked what I think are the regular things, food, my state of mind and wellbeing, etcetera. We told him about the night I sent hubby to the shops for tuna, and he told us about the time his wife was pregnant with his second daughter and she craved mopani worms! The poor man tried every market here in Jhb but they were out of season, resulting in a road trip to Botswana. He returned with a 20 kg bag just for her! We all had a good giggle at this, seems my hubby has it easy (for now).
Okay, here's what happened during the actual scan...
First things I looked for were arms and legs, but I was amazed at the difference when thinking back to our last scan. BabyG was sleeping, and seemed to be sucking it's thumb. The doctor said "oh the baby is sleeping, so no show for us today". I wasn't too sure I understood what he meant at the time, although I suppose I also didn't really know to expect a 'moving' baby?? Who knew? We listened to the heartbeat and again it was 154 bpm. We did some more chatting. Doc asked if I had any idea what we are having, so I told him what I think but also that I actually have absolutely no idea. He laughed and said thankfully it can only be one of 2, and not a whole list! Good grief. My nerves would be shot.
The doc tried again, and then I saw the movement. Little arms and legs fluttering around. I just sat there dumfounded, with a big fat smile on my face. Hubby was worried about tears again, but this time there were none. I think this has got to go down in my book as possibly the most amazing experience of my life yet. It fluttered around a bit more and went back to snooze mode.
Our little thing is 5.90 cm long. Blood pressure I think was normal, I always forget to write that down. Weight didn't seem to be a problem, but I've lost 1,2 kgs since our last visit.
Overall the Doc is happy with everything. He told me to eat something sweet next time, and maybe the baby will play around a lot more. Only problem is I'm not really enjoying really sweet things at the moment. The grapes I had earlier obviously didn't do the trick.
I'm over the moon. Just happy. I think this is what happiness is. Minus the weird dreams.
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| 12 Weeks |
Saturday, January 21, 2012
A Mango Tale...
We went to pick up some DVDs earlier, and wanted to stop for Pizza on the way home. On our way there I told Kevin we HAVE TO get some mangoes. I've been eating them all week and really felt like having some more today. We parked the car and made our way towards the Video Store (skipping Spar so my mangoes would have to wait). After picking our DVDs we get to the counter and Kevin insists they check the discs for scratches. Both discs had scratches on and low and behold, no machine to polish them. The guy takes out a cloth and some liquid and tries to put in some elbow grease. I was obviously rather frustrated, just standing there with crossed arms, Kevin says "Go and get your mangoes so long and I'll see you there". I said "NO we are supposed to go together!" while putting my hands on my hips.
At this stage, the guy behind the counter can hardly contain himself. He looks up and says "I apologize for keeping you from your mangoes". We all laughed and Kevin told him now he knows never to keep a pregnant woman from her food! It's dangerous.
You had to be there, but it was actually rather funny!
And in the end I got a whole box of mangoes. Lazy day here we come.
Image taken from here.
At this stage, the guy behind the counter can hardly contain himself. He looks up and says "I apologize for keeping you from your mangoes". We all laughed and Kevin told him now he knows never to keep a pregnant woman from her food! It's dangerous.
You had to be there, but it was actually rather funny!
And in the end I got a whole box of mangoes. Lazy day here we come.
Image taken from here.
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
Our First Things for Baby
So we haven't bought a thing to date, but we officially have our first few things...my step sis and mom in law spoilt us
Large baby blanket thick and soft, white with green edging
Small baby blanket with with little cats, dogs and mice on (think it's a receiving blanket?)
Baby grows x 3 (white, yellow newborn size, green 0-3 months)
A pregnancy journal/ magazine
Shampoo with pump top
Some nice smelling soaps for me :)
A bag of books to borrow! Including one for hubby. Actually I'm so proud! I've never seen him read a book thicker than a magazine and he's actually been reading "What nobody tells new Fathers".
Large baby blanket thick and soft, white with green edging
Small baby blanket with with little cats, dogs and mice on (think it's a receiving blanket?)
Baby grows x 3 (white, yellow newborn size, green 0-3 months)
A pregnancy journal/ magazine
Shampoo with pump top
Some nice smelling soaps for me :)
A bag of books to borrow! Including one for hubby. Actually I'm so proud! I've never seen him read a book thicker than a magazine and he's actually been reading "What nobody tells new Fathers".
Um, We're "Authorized"!
So hubby is being a little pro-active... which I really love... this morning I get an sms from our MA with an authorization number for August. I think to myself... hmmm did I go to the doctor in August 2011, and hit a complete blank. Soon after I get an email from him asking if he should call the hospital for our booking in August or if we can do it through the doctor, and that he already called for authorization. Then I clicked, it's for THIS August! Hold your horses honey... I said thank you, and maybe we need to wait a few more weeks till we phone the hospital. I just want to get past 12 weeks - for now that's my only goal. Apparently or baby bag will be sent soon.
Funny thing is this all still feels a little unreal. I feel good, just a little tired, and not loving many types of food, but good! Although, you still can't come near me with eggs, and Rooibos tea is pleasant.
I also shared the news with my boss today, so that's done. He's happy for us!
Today I'm 9 weeks and 6 Days. I've read there's lots happening in there!
I've been thinking about taking a photo every now and then to see the change in my belly, but not sure how often I should do this. Once a month, once a week for every week...?
I'd also like to get a proper journal, but need to find a nice one. Think I'll start it at end of January after our next appointment - mind you I still need to phone to schedule it.
Funny thing is this all still feels a little unreal. I feel good, just a little tired, and not loving many types of food, but good! Although, you still can't come near me with eggs, and Rooibos tea is pleasant.
I also shared the news with my boss today, so that's done. He's happy for us!
Today I'm 9 weeks and 6 Days. I've read there's lots happening in there!
I've been thinking about taking a photo every now and then to see the change in my belly, but not sure how often I should do this. Once a month, once a week for every week...?
I'd also like to get a proper journal, but need to find a nice one. Think I'll start it at end of January after our next appointment - mind you I still need to phone to schedule it.
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